๐ฟ๐๐๐ก๐ฎ ๐๐ช๐ฉ๐ง๐ #035 - ๐ ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ช
If yesterday was about Hasya, which opens the room, Karuna deepens the trust once people are open. ๐ ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐. These three words can make a relationship. My friend was going through a personalโฆ
If yesterday was about Hasya, which opens the room, Karuna deepens the trust once people are open.
๐ ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐. These three words can make a relationship.
My friend was going through a personal grief. It was a moment, a moment of sadness. What one could do best at these times is "be silent". No words will take care of him. Just be there along side and be silent. Let him know you understand him.
Karuna is compassion โ making another person feel understood and not alone. It is not sympathy. It is recognition.
People do not open to your pitch. They open up because they feel you have gone through what they are going through. Listen and repeat and either you have gone through it or know something or someone who has. That really opens up the conversation.
Let's be real online. Because fake will fail soon. The authenticity expressed through words will always win.
One thing that I have also learnt over a period of time, is never get involved or get drowned into other people's problems. Keep it at surface level. Never go along with them to your bed. It may sound a little professional, but you have to keep it that way to safeguard your energies.
So tell me, when were the last time you really felt and expressed "I understand you" and how did that make you and other feel?
๐ ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐. These three words can make a relationship.
My friend was going through a personal grief. It was a moment, a moment of sadness. What one could do best at these times is "be silent". No words will take care of him. Just be there along side and be silent. Let him know you understand him.
Karuna is compassion โ making another person feel understood and not alone. It is not sympathy. It is recognition.
People do not open to your pitch. They open up because they feel you have gone through what they are going through. Listen and repeat and either you have gone through it or know something or someone who has. That really opens up the conversation.
Let's be real online. Because fake will fail soon. The authenticity expressed through words will always win.
One thing that I have also learnt over a period of time, is never get involved or get drowned into other people's problems. Keep it at surface level. Never go along with them to your bed. It may sound a little professional, but you have to keep it that way to safeguard your energies.
So tell me, when were the last time you really felt and expressed "I understand you" and how did that make you and other feel?