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Have you observed this in others? Someone has asked you a question and you are answering this like a life story. "You know what happened and da-da-da....". You story is interesting enough. It is aโฆ
Have you observed this in others? Someone has asked you a question and you are answering this like a life story. "You know what happened and da-da-da....". You story is interesting enough. It is a hero story.
But do you know what is happening on the other side, person is who is listening to your story. He is skipping many parts and I can tell that with experience. You know why he just missed important details of your story.
Because he was building his own story. Own story of how his story is better than yours. How he faced even bigger hardships than you? How his survival story is better? Not bad, it is a general human tendency to do so.
Because as someone speaks, we cannot wait to listen. We have been never taught this skill. In ancient wisdom, to interrupt someone who is talking is considered Maha Paap (Greatest Sin).
I have been a sinner so many times, especially in non-professional environment. And that comes because of the impatience. We just want to finish their sentence and move on. Do not have the time or the patience to listen fully.
And that is one of the worst gift I can give to someone. Not listening fully and trying to finish their sentence in my mind. Even if I don't speak or interrupt, if I am already thinking of the next best story to talk or my mind has wandered, I have committed the Maha Paap. These are my thoughts.
But do you know what is happening on the other side, person is who is listening to your story. He is skipping many parts and I can tell that with experience. You know why he just missed important details of your story.
Because he was building his own story. Own story of how his story is better than yours. How he faced even bigger hardships than you? How his survival story is better? Not bad, it is a general human tendency to do so.
Because as someone speaks, we cannot wait to listen. We have been never taught this skill. In ancient wisdom, to interrupt someone who is talking is considered Maha Paap (Greatest Sin).
I have been a sinner so many times, especially in non-professional environment. And that comes because of the impatience. We just want to finish their sentence and move on. Do not have the time or the patience to listen fully.
And that is one of the worst gift I can give to someone. Not listening fully and trying to finish their sentence in my mind. Even if I don't speak or interrupt, if I am already thinking of the next best story to talk or my mind has wandered, I have committed the Maha Paap. These are my thoughts.