Release and Drop Goals In Life

Release and Drop Goals In Life

"Having and Setting and Striving To Achieve Goals in my life has taken me back few years." — Vaibhav Datar

Yes, this is me telling you to release and drop goals in life. A life coach whose entire professional life has been about teaching people to have goals in life and helping them achieve them. I am talking about the contrary being true.

And with personal experience, I can vouch on this.It is said that we should all learn from history. In fact stories are how we learn. Stories are a reflection of past mistakes and learning. What we must do and what me must avoid. We are merely living for 70+ years and we cannot fathom what has happened in 7 billion years... and yet we believe that we are the greatest and we have all the understanding.

Stories or History is a recording of what has happened in the past and how it has shaped mankind. Stories talk about what we need to let go of and what we need to catch hold of.In fact mythology was never a word. It was introduced way later just so that we stop believing in our stories. That would be a writing for another day. Right now, I am talking about this "release and drop goals in life".

So you might want to ask "how come?" and "why?" and "how does it help?". Patience, my friend. Everything would be revealed to you in due course.I can talk about myself openly here. In 90% of the times, I have missed my goals. The 10% that I did achieve were the ones that were aligned to who I am. It is like mango tree having a goal to produce oranges. 100% of the times it is going to miss it, unless it changes to what it is aligned to do and that is to produce mangoes. So the 10% of goal achievement happened when I was aligned to my true north, where I need to go.

But now I have stopped setting goals for I believe everythnig will be revealed to me in due course, whenever I am ready. Nothing comes to me early in life. You cannot hasten the growth of mangoes, well technically you can do that, but drom a flavour, fragrance perspective, it will loose its essence. We all know that.

Everything will be revealed to me in due course of time. Everything will arrive. And when it does, it will arrive in a grand nature. So I have stopped setting goals and started focus on alignment in life.